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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s not abrupt. He divorced 7 years ago and they have dated 3 years … so that part of your post is not reasonable. Her kids are not your family. She is not your family. That is clear. But who cares, you hang out and receive people in your home or at family events all the time. You have some unreasonable expectation that your SIL should be like a sister. You need to get over your hang-up’s., that doesn’t mean you have to be buddy buddy with your brother girl friend, just be a mature adult [/quote] OP didn’t say anything that suggests she isn’t being a mature adult. She’s just saying it feels uncomfortable to have the pretense or theater that they are closer or have a deeper relationship than they really do. She’s not being impolite or uncaring. [/quote]
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