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[quote=Anonymous]DH and his brother seem to get along for the most part, but we just had an odd planned visit with them.

DH had a habit of calling the day before and saying “we are passing through! Want to visit for awhile?” If they say yes, we stop by for two hours to chat and then leave. No expectations.

We did this a few months ago and DH and I got to meet our little nieces. They are preschool age.

We had a visit with more notice recently and SIL sent the kids away to her parents when she found out we were coming. DH told his brother weeks ago but BIL didn’t tell his wife until two days before we arrived. We stay in a hotel, provide a meal for the family, and limit our visits to 2-4 hours.

SIL has never mentioned a problem with me or DH. I was with DH when he was playing with his nieces and nothing concerning happened. So was BIL.

Should we stop visiting just over this? They never visit us, so this is a one direction relationship anyway. DH is having a tough time letting it go, but I’m getting exhausted from spending hundreds of dollars and precious free time on them when this is going on.

No, I don’t know why SIL found out about our visit so late. [/quote]

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