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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do people with a very contentious divorce manage to coparent effectively and avoid spelling things over to their kids?

We have reached the separating finances stage of our divorce and I’m incredibly angry. It’s one thing for a long marriage to breakdown, it’s another thing for that person to turn around and lie and cheat and try to screw me and the kids over financially.

This whole process has been one disappointment after another – clearly I thought STBX was great at some point and now that is so far in the rearview mirror. i can’t help feeling a lot of hatred on a daily basis.

How do people handle this phase?  I don’t want to be that parent who is trying to poison their children against the  ex. I so badly want to do the right thing for the kids and help them maintain their relationship with my ex, but if STBX dropped dead today, I might have difficulty containing my glee. Any tips on how to bridge this gap?  [/quote]

I don't know but SAME girl, SAME. Here's hoping he drops dead for you.

And PS in response to another poster my kids still think I adore my departing spouse. I think maybe all the compartmentalization increases my anger so yeah.... gotta find places to get it out elsewhere.[/quote]

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