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[quote=Anonymous]How do you handle it when a friend changes dramatically due to change in life circumstances? Basically her husband's business took off, which is wonderful, but she has become a different person - constantly talking about what they are buying, spending, traveling, doing to their house, where they are buying another vacation house, how many tennis lessons she has this week to fill the hours while kids are at school, what her plans are for plastic surgery, her recent botox and filler, her new favorite place to order designer workout gear, etc etc. I know you will think I am just jealous and fair enough - it would be wonderful to never have to worry about money or working again but this is different. I feel like I have essentially lost a dear friend because she never talks about anything real or relatable, and when I try to share the types of conversation and interaction we used to enjoy together, she always manages to bring the conversation back to what they are buying/spending/doing. It is exhausting and makes me sad. I'm not sure whether is is worth being honest about feeling distant, or trying to salvage the friendship, or just let it go? I don't know if it is a phase or just her new personality. Has anyone been through something like this with a friend?[/quote]
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