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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, my DH is more mature now than when we married, and so am I. We did go to marriage counseling, which helped. We also broke with his old friends (a lot of single guys, hard drinkers) and found a community of parents our age with similar values. The counselor was a helpful kick in the pants but being surrounded by other guys who are involved parents was more relevant to long term change. I am the breadwinner (always have been) but DH pulls his weight and does a lot in our community. BTW, we continually renegotiate his time-intensive hobby and my job demands: there's no one-time fix after which you don't have to work on things. I agree your DH sounds depressed and would benefit from counseling on his own, too. [/quote]
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