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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The time to say no was when she called offering to bring something for dinner. [/quote] Op here. You’re right. I was actually trying on that approach where you don’t hold stories about people over their heads and treat them as such, but instead try to approach it with an open mind. It actually occurred to me when she texted that this might be a tactic to have a get together when she knows it is a bit much as she hosted a group lunch at her house yesterday for 4 hrs. I guess I am learning she is patterned in this and she is not the type of person to approach with this type of mindset. It just sucks because it’s exhausting to have to be so vigilant around someone. Uhggg why can’t people just have better boundaries. [/quote]
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