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[quote=Anonymous]You are reading too much into the DCUM posts of desperate women who expect their boyfriends to propose without prompting. Normal men and women talk about marriage as a couple and then, perhaps, the man "proposes". But actually they have an understanding before that. Usually the parents are NOT involved in those decisions. I do not know a single couple who needed to consult their parents or one in which a woman dumbly waited for years for a man to propose without discussing it beforehand. Sometimes, though, a proposal can be a surprise. My husband proposed on the second date, because we met a month before he was due to accept a post abroad. He was in a hurry! [/quote]
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