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[quote=Anonymous]I recently broke into a seven figure income (think junior c-suite at a mid-sized tech company). As a former public servant, this is both unexpected and unfamiliar. It wasn't until a few years ago that I realized this was even a possibility let alone a likelihood. I feel exceptionally fortunate. But this situation is new enough that I haven't yet built up an equivalent nest egg, so the income/wealth doesn't feel permanent. The "problem" is that I now find myself perpetually concerned about the ethereal nature of the situation. I like my job and am unlikely to lose it, but stranger things have happened - an issue I'm blamed for, an acquisition by a larger company that make my role duplicative, etc. And while I think I could probably land an equivalent role, I find my thoughts frequently drifting toward what-if scenarios regarding a loss of my income. For those who have been in high-paying jobs for a while, does this eventually go away? Is this just the new situation jitters, or will this now preoccupy my spare thought cycles? I don't want to be a person who thinks about money all the time, even if it's from a position of privilege. And just to head off the inevitable... I don't post this with the intention to rub my good fortune in the faces of others. I'm not trolling. I recognize the cry-me-a-river aspect of this, but it's a legitimate situation and, for obvious reasons, I don't really have anybody to talk to in real life about it. So here I am.[/quote]
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