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[quote=Anonymous]I wasn’t happy, I did most chores (H took the trash out once a week and was supposed to do yardwork but rarely did). I was also paying 50-75% of the bills. We tried everything, Fair Play, chore charts, everything. His true colors showed through when we were dividing up the Fair Play cards at a restaurant and he suddenly yelled “my friends warned me not to date a white woman, they don’t clean or cook!” We divorced and I’m MUCH happier. I spent maybe 15 minutes a day on chores and the house is clean - I never realized how much of the mess and chaos was caused by him. The kids also pitch in to help (they never did before because if dad wasn’t helping, why should they?) I do strongly recommend divorcing men who can’t pull their weight. Therapy, conversations, Fair Play, etc are all just pushing off the inevitable because there’s nothing you can do about a lazy man with a bad attitude. [/quote]
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