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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I saw a text message that I wasn't supposed to see referring to "chiefing" (I had to look it up), along with a couple of photos. I've suspected it for a few months though - a lot of "hanging out" with friends at the park and being super secretive/protective of his phone (which is why I snooped). I have an older DC (18) who I know drinks sometimes, but I'm fairly certain isn't into weed, and definitely wasn't doing anything at this age (partly due to Covid, he also wasn't really going out with friends in the evenings until 11th grade). What should i do? WWYD?[/quote] Start searching his room and bags. Tell him you suspected and tell him what you found. I wouldn't punish unless and until I found it in the house or on him. But 'punishment' alone will do nothing. You have to talk to him about why it is so bad. Show him scholarly articles. Especially if this is vaping - there are so many testimonials from other teens and and parent about weed vapes out there. If you don't already know, try to see if you can find out what is behind it. It could just be boredom/summer or could be more.[/quote]
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