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[quote=Anonymous]You need to access every situation differently. Some birthparents are warm, caring stable people who just want to know their kids are ok. Others have serious mental health and substance abuse issues. They should not be treated in the same manner. You don't have to leave your child alone with the birthparents. That is not really the priority. I've never had a concern with leaving my child alone with his birthparents or some of the grandparents as they would never do anything to harm her or kidnap her. They entrusted you with their child, the least you can do is give them the same consideration. Imagine being on the other side handing your newborn over to a stranger and knowing you can't call or see them ever again. We don't have a formal agreement but they have never been intrusive or cause any issues in our home. Everyone is very flexible. [/quote]
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