Reply to Husband too close to female friend?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Husband too close to female friend?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]I'd be annoyed if I was expected to send 250 texts a day to my husband. The fact he is doing it with another woman, yeah, inappropriate.

This is infatuation. They are gaga over each other. Who else would you text 250 times a day to? They can't get enough.

I've been there, and we are separated now. Working on things, but it did a tremendous amount of damage. I lost so much respect for my husband. Our marriage was bad, and we both needed to deal with things, but I didn't have the energy or strength to become infatuated with another man. And the woman he did this with...low hanging fruit. Who is now getting divorced and on the road to becoming a single mom. We've known her for years, they also worked together and she was having problems in her marriage. Why people find it attractive when a man or woman is so totally throwing their spouse under the bus, I don't know. I would be completely sketched out by a married dad giving me attention and talking about his bad marriage. My husband was low hanging fruit too, and it sucks. I don't get it.

He has cut off contact with her, or at least contact to that extreme (they no longer work together but you in the same industry so do see other some). We are in counseling, but I don't know what is going to happen. I'm trying to find compassion, but there is a hardness there now that is not softening yet. It is going to take time.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics