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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be very careful with this. With a man like this he can be highly manipulative and could turn it around so he gets her to not want to be with YOU, or he claims parental alienation if you attempt to influence her to not be with him. The die is cast, he is already her father. IMO it is sometimes best to support her as she gradually figures things out for herself about who her dad is.[/quote]

Thanks. I’m being crazy cautious and even as I work through how this split will work, I’m being obsessive about making sure that he is offered more than equal time to be with her, to be in the house, take her to activities, etc. And at the same time she’s saying stuff to me that she’s afraid of how he’ll act this time or that she is dreading him driving her to practice or whatever. I probably need specific legal guidance but I worry that even validating her fears could be used against me as alienation ammo. And at the same time, I’m legit afraid for her to be with him if I’m not there, because he is moody and angry and unpredictable.[/quote]

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