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[quote=Anonymous]I have no therapist recs but have worked on letting go of my guilt! I yell at my 7 year old ADD son several times a week. I have made enormous efforts to restrain the impulse to slap him. I sometimes resort to speaking acidly or use sarcasm. Oddly enough, we have a great relationship, and hug and kiss during 99% of the bedtime routines. We tell each other "I love you". He knows that I love him and have sacrificed so much for him. He knows that I will always put his needs first, ALWAYS. I communicate openly with him about his special-ness - of which he is very aware (he told me at 4 years old that he could not turn off his thoughts to listen to me or to fall asleep - like a TV perpetually on). I filled him in on the IEP discussions and classroom accomodations. When we moved recently, we discussed school choices and extra-curricular activities, which we selected to strengthen his weaknesses. His talents and skills are highlighted just as his weaknesses are pointed out. Everything is open and explained. I am sure it helps build a climate of trust. [/quote]
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