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[quote=Anonymous]Inspired by the topic "how many dates to commit". I wonder if it's just my experience, but men on OLD seem to be sleeping around themselves, but hate it when the woman is doing the same. I am pretty, like sex and have no issues sleeping with 2 men at the same time, while I decide.  But it happened several times that when men asked if I was seeing others and I confirmed, they evaporated very quickly. For example, I started dating a guy and told him that my preference would be monogamy from the start. He was not ready for exclusivity, so I went ahead and continued seeing others, and found one more lover a few weeks after. Once the guy #1 realized I was seeing someone else, he seemed pretty confused, unhappy and became suspicious of where I was some evenings. I just told him it's my private life and I felt free to see others if he was sleeping with others. The relationship with #1 eventually fizzled, because we never developed the needed trust to continue,  and I stayed and still see the guy #2.

How do other women approach exclusivity? In my view, open relationships should be open both ways.  But men don't like when others f...k their women, even if he has a stable of chicks, he wants all of them only sleep with him.

Ladies -do you hide/lie about your other lovers?[/quote]

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