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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve gone on 6 dates with a man over the last 6 weeks. We’ve slept together the last 3.

Last night after a date/sex, I asked if he was sleeping with anyone else. He said yes, he’s dating and sleeping with one other woman.

He’s been inviting me to meet his friends and family, so I’m confused. I don’t expect us to declare ourselves boyfriend/girlfriend, but I feel like 6 dates is enough to know if you’re into someone enough to stop having sex with other people. Especially if you think things are serious enough to meet friends.

Am I expecting monogamy way too early? Is he just not that into me? [/quote]

Gross.
I just dont get sleeping with some guy who isn’t exclusive with you.
Of I offered you a sip of punch out of the same glass that everyone else was drinking out of at a party, you’d probably have the discernment to hesitate and decline. Because gross.

And yet that’s exactly what you are doing when you are exchanging bodily fluids with this dude who is also exchanging them “one other woman” and God knows who else she’s sleeping with. Just gross.[/quote]

I mean, I didn’t know he was until last night. Up until then we were definitely “relationship-lite” and I thought he was really into me. He was introducing me to people in his life and when I was PMSing and feeling really depressed recently, he cancelled his plans to come over and cheer me up, and ordered me DoorDash the next couple days. So I thought he was pretty into me.

Was just kinda shocked to hear he’s still sleeping with someone else, when his behavior indicated he saw us heading to a relationship and was into me. [/quote]

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