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[quote=Anonymous]How do you respond? I know families who are SO into validating feelings that the kids seem unable to move on. It’s almost like they’re feeding the fire and making the feelings deeper and take on more importance when they “oh man that IS a huge bummer honey, come here let me give you a hug, I know you’re SO disappointed!” I’m all for validating feelings but then helping my kids move on. Oh man, yeah it’s a bummer it’s too late to hit the pool, but we can go tomorrow! And also—maybe you’re giving your kids too many choices? I know that’s the parenting trend now, and again, I’m all for it, but I think we are tipping the scales and taking it too far. Kids lose their mind over a breakfast choice? Tomorrow everyone is having eggs and toast; take it or leave it. [/quote]
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