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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My daughter is waiting tables this summer, and gets hit on/ asked for her number. It makes her really uncomfortable. And she says it wrecks her focus and she doesn't feel like she does as good a job after one of these incidents. Of course I've told her it gets better with practice (ugh) and that this is just part of being in the world, but I still hate it for her.

I was a waitress at her age too, and remember lots of inappropriate men but I was pretty bold at that age and it didn't ruin my day the way it does hers. She and I have very different personalities. I once dumped a pitcher of ice water on a guy who patted my butt. She would shrivel up and die if someone did that to her.

I'd love some ideas on how she can respond to them, and for reframing these interactions for her. [/quote]

I feel this.  It sucks being a young woman in this world.  And she's doing a job where of course she needs to try to keep it light because they are tipping her.  She's going to have to learn to deal.  Keep it light and breezy would be my advice to her.  I'm taken (with a smile)!  If any customer persists past that she should get her manager.[/quote]

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