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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A friend's 18yo child was hospitalized for alcohol poisoning, and although she was a physician, she could not get any information from the hospital.

To avoid such a scenario, she said certain legal documents need to be in place.

Could anyone provide info on what exact documents and where to find them? I think HIPPA and medical power of attorney?

Can I just find them online and discuss them with my adult children and have them signed before leaving for college? Have others done this?[/quote]

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I'm really sorry to hear about your friend's situation—it's understandably concerning when you can't access information about a loved one’s health due to privacy laws like HIPAA.

You're on the right track with HIPAA and medical power of attorney. To help clarify, here’s what you’re likely referring to and some additional documents that might be important in this situation:

[b]1. HIPAA Authorization Form[/b]
[b]What it is: [/b]This form gives permission for healthcare providers to disclose health information to specific individuals, like parents or guardians.

[b]Why it’s important:[/b] Even though your child is legally an adult at 18, you can still be kept in the loop regarding their medical situation if they fill out this form.

[b]Where to find it: [/b]You can usually find this form on the hospital’s website or request it directly from your doctor’s office. There are also general templates available online.
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Does it require a signature?: [/b]Yes, your child will need to sign it voluntarily, and it may need to be witnessed or notarized, depending on your state’s requirements.

[b]2. Medical Power of Attorney (MPOA)[/b]
[b]What it is: [/b]This allows you (or someone else) to make medical decisions on behalf of your child if they are unable to make decisions for themselves (e.g., if they are unconscious or incapacitated).

[b]Why it’s important: [/b]It allows you to step in and make decisions if your child is incapacitated or in a medical emergency.

[b]Where to find it:[/b] You can find these forms online via state-specific legal websites, like LegalZoom, or through state government health resources.
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Does it require a signature?: [/b]Yes, this document typically needs to be signed in the presence of a notary, depending on state laws.

[b]3. Advance Healthcare Directive (Living Will)[/b]
[b]What it is:[/b] This document lays out your child’s wishes for medical treatment if they become unable to communicate. It includes decisions about things like life support, organ donation, etc.

[b]Why it’s important: [/b]In case of a very serious medical situation, this directive can guide healthcare providers and family members about your child’s preferences.
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Where to find it:[/b] Similar to the MPOA, it can be found on state websites or platforms like LegalZoom.

[b]4. Durable Power of Attorney for Finances[/b]
[b]What it is: [/b]This isn’t directly medical but might be useful. It allows you to make financial decisions on your child’s behalf if they are incapacitated (e.g., managing insurance or medical bills).

[b]Where to find it:[/b] Same places as MPOA and Living Will.

[b]Can You Just Find Them Online and Discuss Them?[/b]
Yes, you can definitely find these forms online and discuss them with your adult children. In fact, many people create these documents as their children approach adulthood, especially before they head off to college. It can be a helpful and responsible step to take, ensuring that everyone understands the importance of medical privacy, decision-making, and the legal aspects involved.
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Here are some things to keep in mind:[/b]

-Discussing the documents with your children ahead of time can help them feel more comfortable and informed about the process.

-Notarization might be required in some cases, so you’ll want to check your state’s specific requirements.

-State laws vary, so it’s a good idea to double-check the laws in your state to ensure that the documents you fill out are valid and complete.

Have Others Done This?
Yes, many parents have done this as part of planning for their child’s transition to adulthood, especially with kids heading off to college or living away from home. It’s often an easy, proactive way to ensure you’ll be prepared in case of emergencies.

If you’re in a state that requires a notary, or if you’d like extra reassurance that you’re filling everything out correctly, you could consider speaking to a lawyer for guidance.

Have you or your children had to navigate any of this before, or is this the first time you’re looking into these kinds of documents?

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