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[quote=Anonymous]Our son is rude, nasty and verbally abusive to us. I have significant health issues and his behavior adversely affects my mental and physical health. I have had 2 open heart surgeries in my 60s and now my heart is failing. He has no interest nor does he care. He doesn’t understand why I’m not as active as I was. 
Why is this a problem? I told them I would help them with their 2 girls because one of them is having her tonsils out and can’t go to daycare for a week. 
The last time I was at their house I  left and my son just kicked me out. He wouldn’t say goodbye. I am begging them to tell me what I’m doing “wrong” but I get no response. I clean, buy their groceries, watch the kids, do laundry, straighten up and I’m exhausted. They eat all processed goods and I can’t function on that. I keep an upbeat attitude but I’m clearly annoying them. I don’t know what’s going on. 
I’m a mess. I am not sleeping and my anxiety and heart arrhythmias are through the roof. 
I planned on getting a hotel room and renting a car even though they have the ability to provide that. 
Today I realized there is no way I can expose myself to this abuse. I adore, ADORE my granddaughters and they adore me. 
Please don’t bring on the hate. I need to get out of this commitment I made. I realize they can cut off my ability to see my granddaughters and they are capable of that level of cruelty. I’ve already been told I might not have many years left and I’m in a position where being around my kids will kill me. Not being able to see my granddaughters will destroy me. 
How do I get out of this and do the least amount of damage? 
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