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[quote=Anonymous]My DH had a lot of problems before we married, but he likes to believe that anything bad about his life is because of me. As we've gone through the years together, I've realized that he has a huge and fragile ego and really struggles with acknowledging his own shortcomings and failures in life. When he does let himself feel them, he falls into depression, which turns into lashing out at others. When he doesn't let himself feel them, he looks around for others to blame for the way he feels and skips the depression phase. When he was growing up, his parents/sibling were to blame for anything that was wrong. Through college and grad school, it was professors or teammates. Now it's bosses or me. His current boss is great so I'm the last woman standing. This all goes way back to his childhood and it would take a LOT of therapy that he's not willing to do in order for him to start to realistically address it. It sounds like your DH might be in the same boat.[/quote]
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