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[quote=Anonymous]DH may be out of a job over the next few months. We’ve been aware that this could happen for quite some time. There are some good job possibilities out there for him to consider, but he just blows off the suggestions and won't even apply. Sure, I can be the main breadwinner, and we’d struggle but be ok. The thing is he has the skills and potential to recover well. The most he’ll say is that he’ll probably be unemployed soon, and then brings up some midlife crisis gig idea like selling art online or something that’s obviously not going to work out well like selling things at a flea market or looking for DJ gigs because he’s into music. Or bike repair. If we were in our 20s without kids renting a studio, ok, live out your fantasy, but that’s not going to cut it in our 40s with kids and real bills. I don’t know if it’s sone coping mechanism or what, but it’s getting hard to listen to knowing that he’s not focusing on a realistic, viable plan B.[/quote]
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