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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are with him why?   Work on your self esteem issues.  [/quote]

Because our marriage is good and in a vacuum, his demands don’t seem unreasonable and were easy to comply with. You don’t want me talking to the baseball dads or my dumbass colleagues? That’s fine; I was really just being polite and social and a team player. I’m naturally somewhat introverted, so sitting quietly or ordering room service, or reading if my kid isn’t playing is fine by me.

Frankly, apart from the double standard, I didn’t really care about the woman from softball. I trust(ed?) my husband, and realize I really can’t police him (or anyone) into fidelity. But the deceit about her continued participation has really hit me hard.[/quote]

NP. Actually the fact that a husband "demands" anything of his wife is totally unreasonable. That he doesn't want you to chat with your colleagues is completely unreasonable. What if a male colleague comes up to you? Are you supposed to plug your ears and sing "La la la, I can't hear you!" to him? You are being obtuse. Your husband is cheating on you. He is wildly insecure (which is where possessiveness comes from) and trying to make himself feel better by cheating. [/quote]

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