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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are with him why?   Work on your self esteem issues.  [/quote]

Because our marriage is good and in a vacuum, his demands don’t seem unreasonable and were easy to comply with. You don’t want me talking to the baseball dads or my dumbass colleagues? That’s fine; I was really just being polite and social and a team player. I’m naturally somewhat introverted, so sitting quietly or ordering room service, or reading if my kid isn’t playing is fine by me.

Frankly, apart from the double standard, I didn’t really care about the woman from softball. I trust(ed?) my husband, and realize I really can’t police him (or anyone) into fidelity. But the deceit about her continued participation has really hit me hard.[/quote]

You’re either a troll or have some deep issues. No one and I mean no one should be able to dictate who you talk to. The fact that you say you can’t control him while having no issues with him controlling you should be very concerning. [/quote]

I wish I was a troll…

My therapist would say he controls me because I allow him to control me. I allow it because the cost of this control is worth have a solid marriage (to me, it might not be worth it to others).

What bothers me is:
1. Double standards. He can have all the female friends he wants. But if that’s what he wants, than that’s what I can have.
2. Deceit. Why lie (either blatantly or by omission) about this woman’s status? I didn’t care that he had female friends.
3. The accusations of cheating. The conversation gets so tiring after awhile.[/quote]

None of it is ok. Your marriage is far from being solid. You are married to a selfish man child and probably a cheater. [/quote]

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