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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m engaged to my fiancé who I’ve been with for over 2 years. I was let go from my job due to DOGE a month ago and have been down and stressed out about the situation.

Normally, I am very attentive to my fiancé’s emotional needs and moods. Right now, I’m just exhausted, and I’ve asked for some grace while I figure things out for myself.

He puts me under constant pressure to perform, to look happy, be highly energetic, etc. He keeps trying to “fix” me. And keep telling him there’s nothing to fix to just let me be. He asks me what wrong every five mins.

He also keeps snapping and yelling at me for not being happy.

I am not depressed. I’m naturally an introvert and he’s  an extrovert, and I just want to be with myself right now, but he won’t allow that in his presence. I have no idea how we will live together if he won’t leave me alone. I am considering calling the wedding off.

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You sound very high strung and introverted.

You probably need a guy that's laid back and introverted as well, where both of you need your "alone time" apart from each other, and him being laid back to deal and cope with your high anxiety levels. [/quote]

What about OPs post indicates anxiety? Because she’s stressed about having lost her job? Maybe she’s not rich.[/quote]

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