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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you talked to your employer and asked for the same work situation you had pre-covid (and presumably had a track record of performing well with)? You've got to have some level of seniority if you've been there this long. I only encourage you to make sure you've fully pursued this because in my experience, women are socialized not to ask for things like this. We hear the new policy and adjust without even trying to push back. I was in a similar situation and finally broke down and asked for 2 WFH days instead of 1 and they gave it to me without much issue. I could have had it a year or more earlier if I'd just asked. The worst they can say is no. If you've done what you can to make it work with your new employer, then I'd suggest at least putting feelers out for another similar job with the flexibility you need. Though new job stress/transition is a a pain in the short term, if it's truly a better set up it will serve you and your family well ultimately. [/quote] Yes - currently trying to negotiate 1 day a week in the office instead of 3, which I could compromise on. But I think anything more than that and I’d have to walk. [/quote]
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