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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I found out my wife’s been flirting with a couple of guys I golf with. At first, I thought maybe they were exaggerating, guys being guys, reading too much into things. Then one of the wives told me point blank: my wife hooked up with her husband. Yeah. That one hit like a punch to the chest. I’ve been trying to make this marriage work. She travels all the time, and when she’s home, it’s like she’s somewhere else. She barely spends any time with our kid, that part hurts the most. I’m the one doing school drop-offs, dinners, bedtime stories. She always has an excuse to not be around.
I kept telling myself she was just stressed or burnt out. But now? I still want to believe we can fix this, for our kid, for the years we’ve built together. But I’m also starting to wonder if I’m the only one still trying. Would you stay and try to fix it for the family?[/quote]
 You can’t fix your marriage single-handedly. Does she know that you know?[/quote]
You're right, you can't fix a marriage on your own. And no, she doesn't know I know yet. What makes it harder is that it wasn’t just some random guy, it was someone from my own group, guys I golf with, people I considered friends. That betrayal cuts both ways. I'm still trying to figure out how to even bring it up without things spiraling, especially with our kid caught in all this.
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