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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the follow-up question is at whose expense he believes in making himself happy.

Adults need to exercise, for example. But is his vision he goes to play golf every Sunday afternoon for six hours and *you* stay with the kids, or is his vision he goes to play golf every Sunday afternoon for six hours and *you* go hiking every Sunday afternoon for six hours and a six hour weekend babysitter is a household expense. One version is exploitative and selfish (and not uncommon) and one version is not, but still may not align with the idea of “family first”.[/quote]

Ya if you're seeing signs that you'd be a good widow, I’d seriously consider bailing. Golfers and marathon runners generally don't make good husbands or fathers. Having witnessed those marriages first hand, I think most people would be better off single than with avid golfers or marathon/iron man athletes. [/quote]

I get your point, but that’s a generalization.  My husband and I both love golf and play together once a month, at least.  I am also happy to stay with out kids while he plays golf, as he stays with the kids when I go to get massages/pedicures/go to the gym/go out with friends.  [/quote]

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