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[quote=Anonymous]I too lost my dad and it doesn't;t get easier but the grief is different. Mine passed in 2017 and I still have not been able to listen to voicemails I saved as hearing his voice will be too hard for me. But I am able to have memories of him that make me feel warm rather than automatically make me really sad, so that has changed as more time has passed. I will still once in a while cry for him but it is not often and usually triggered by something specific like a song on the radio or something. My dad was my person and I still catch myself wondering what he would do, say, how he would react to certain things. And I am the most sad for my now 18 and 20 year old kids who have grown into really amazing young adults and he will never get to know them. Those are the thoughts that make me sad. Finding someone to talk to will be helpful for you, but also know that grief is not linear and it's ok to still be sad about it, as long as it isn't debilitating you.[/quote]
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