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[quote=Anonymous]I hate gardening so I'm trying to imagine a scenario that would resonate with me. You said he was really sorry and he apologized. You also said you would be responsible for most of the work involved in fixing the situation, but as someone who doesn't garden I don't know how I'd fix it for you other than hiring someone to do it - would you be amenable to that?

You said he's done something like this before - do you mean the one time he did it to the sunflowers? Or do you have other examples? Two times separated by months or years really could be a mistake. Multiple times or other instances of him disrespecting you and your things is obviously a pattern.

I commented on the "shut the f up" thread that I wouldn't tolerate that behavior and I thought that OP should drop that boyfriend like a hot coal, so I'm not some sort of male apologist or anything, I'm just trying to understand if this was truly a mistake or something he's doing on purpose.

If I, for example, accidentally drove over my husband's golf clubs with my car, I wouldn't know what to do to replace them because I don't know anything about golf. I would apologize and offer to take them to a store to find replacements or I'd say if he wanted to do so because he wanted to pick them out he could. I would feel terrible and I'd want to do whatever I could to make it up to him but I also know I might not be able make it all better without the knowledge I'd need about the clubs. And what if the ones I broke were older ones and he didn't want those exact same ones replaced? Or what if they were custom clubs so I couldn't replace them exactly on my own? With respect to your flowers, what if it's not the right time of year now to replant the exact same flowers so you would need to find other replacements? [/quote]

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