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[quote=Anonymous]The way you feel is completely normal. You are literally going through a huge transformation in your .

It’s unclear to me if you work.

I will tell you though I did not have very many friends when my kids were that age because even your closest friends are not hanging out with you unless your kids are around the same age.

I’d find a mommy and meat group with kids, the same age. When my kids started school and started activities, I ended up getting a whole new group of friends. If this toddler age is very tough on women and friendships.

You need to talk to a therapist.

If you don’t work, you need a job. It doesn’t have to be full-time. And it doesn’t have to be immediate, but you have a couple years before both kids are in school full-time right now. I would start thinking about how you could use your skills and then parlay that into a really good flexible job you enjoy.

You need a babysitter that you trust so I personally would get a nanny. But you might be able to find a babysitter you trust. This is so you can get a hobby or go work out or something because if you don’t have those things you’re gonna be depressed.

If you don’t already have it, get a cleaning crew and have them do your laundry.

You don’t do enough things and it sounds like your husband does too many. I don’t think it’s terrible that your husband has hobbies and friends. What is terrible that you don’t.

Friends take time but hobbies do not.

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