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Reply to "Does getting married mean you just slowly lose yourself until there's nothing left? "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are stuck in this mental state of I hate it here. Well turn that mindset around to this place isn’t my first choice but it’s where I’m at and I’m going to make the best of it for my kids. Then do it. You’re giving external thingsthings too much control over whether you’re happy or not. You control that, change your habits, do more things that make you happy. Hire some help if you have to. [/quote] Agree with this. You don’t describe your husband as perfect. Actually you describe him as a bit selfish. However, this is the season you’re in. It’s really hard either way young kids and no support network. Venture out into some social activities. If he’s in big law you should be able to afford a sitter at least once in a while. Staying home is not only a sacrifice you’re doing for him. You’re also choosing to raise your children. Dont feel less wanted/needed/important because you were the one sacrificing. And don’t dwell on that. [/quote]
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