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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here are my thoughts as a high school special educator, as well as a parent of kid who was diagnosed at the same age.

First, rising 9th grade is very young.  Kids change and grow a lot during high school.  So, while I think it's helpful to explore options, and keep an open mind, I would be very hesitant to write off options at this age.

The other is that a kid with the profile you describe who managed to earn B's in middle school without formal accommodations or special education supports, also has significant strengths. Whether that's work ethic, or executive functioning, or sheer willpower, something got him through and allowed him to overcome all those years.  When you combine those strengths with accommodations and more targeted interventions, you may see that he can handle more academically than you thought.  Plus, even if he doesn't, those traits will stand him well in the real world.

As far as what kind of career, I would use these years to have my kid explore various interests, and also get some experience working whether for pay or in a volunteer role where he has some kind of ongoing responsibility.  That will help you see what he likes

As far as what kinds of colleges, there are large numbers of small colleges that aren't selective admissions wise, give good financial aid, and have good supports.  Your kid will have choices.  [/quote]

This is excellent, excellent advice. OP, I'd also suggest you read "the self-driven child" which is (in large part) about re-framing your thinking to focus on the things your kid loves and their strengths, with good advice about how to navigate the high school years with a kid for whom "school" is not the thing. There are so many things your kid can be great at. Don't close doors now![/quote]

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