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[quote=Anonymous]You need noise cancelling headphones asap. After that, I think you need to give your husband time to develop his skills-sounds like you had four years of honing yours and he deserves some grace while he improves too. Finally, I think you should have it on your radar that she might need a neuropsych eval in a year or two if this keeps up. Yes, tantrums happen but what you describe sounds like not having a tantrum requires a really unusual level of vigilance (and disruption to the rest of the family-if you think being that exquisitely attuned to your younger child isn’t affecting your older child-it is!) that’s not to say you aren’t doing a great job (or that your husband isn’t) or that she’s not a great kid who will thrive! it just sounds like she is “high needs” and professional input might eventually be helpful. [/quote]
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