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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What makes her “very shady” aside from your perception? I don’t think there’s much you can do, in any case.[/quote] She was the housekeeper from two different overseas nations and ended up here as a domestic servant. Her two prior husbands (one in Middle East, one in Philippines are dead), and she has like 10-15 different fb profiles with contradictory information. She had lied to my father about easily confirmed facts (where her children lie/work etc). She is also wearing a large diamond ring and he is acting uncharacteristically. It’s like someone took my dad and replaced him with an incredibly stupid and unkind old man who looks like him. I’m blindsided by his idiocy, his arrogance, and his apparent plan to leave his entire estate to this pirate. If she was an undocumented person with no citizenship papers, what would happen if I call police or file a report to ICE or APS? Could she get deported? [b]Is marriage fraud a crime?[/b][/quote] A green card marriage is illegal. But if she's a US citizen, getting married for money is not illegal.[/quote] She was definitely not a us citizen at the time of their wedding. [b]I don’t know if being married to him confers automatic citizenship or not.[/b] I’m asking if she is someone ICE would be interested in or not. I believe she is controlling his phone email and accounts. Is this not illegal? [/quote] It does not. The US is fearful of such marriages, and the bar is high to maintain status until the papers go through, at which point yes, the non-US person can become a US citizen. Do your research. [/quote] Me again. But not being a US citizen doesn't mean she's not legally here, OP. Immigration law is EXTREMELY COMPLEX. You have no way of knowing what her status was before she married your father. Also, for her to eventually get US citizenship, please be assured that USCIS will look carefully into her entire time in the US, and whether she was at any point in the country without the correct status. [/quote]
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