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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a single older women. For my birthday, I would like to meet friends for dinner at a restaurant. How do I invite them without suggesting I am picking up the tab for the whole group? [/quote] Don't mention your birthday "I haven't seen you in a while -- maybe we could get together for dinner somewhere?" You cannot "invite" people to make a fuss over you at their expense. [/quote] +1 You can't have it both ways. If you want to celebrate your birthday then you host and pay.[/quote] I Don’t understand the “have it both ways” comment. If these are people you would join for dinner normally, why is it asking for a fuss to do it on your birthday? Especially if you make it clear that no gifts will be accepted. Some of you may not be single, but if you are and don’t make your own plans, nothing will happen. Not sure why you are more obligated on your birthday to pick up the bill than other nights? 🤔 [/quote]
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