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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My boyfriend and I just got into a big fight. We were spending the weekend together at his place, when all of a sudden he started texting and taking a call while we were watching a movie. Then he said his best friend got a flat tire and he had to help him.

I said ok, and asked if I could come. He said no and then also told me he had plans on Sunday with some other friends. This seemed really odd and fishy to me. We had been spending the weekend together and there was no mention of him being booked tomorrow, until mysteriously he now has to help with this flat tire.

I grabbed my things and told him I was going to sleep at my place. He got upset and asked me for the key to his place back. He had recently given it to me, and we were getting more serious.

I’m really upset right now. What are others thoughts on what just happens?

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You're both way too dramatic and reactive. It's a little odd that he didn't want you to tag along for the tire thing, but you posted at 1 in the morning DC time, so that's pretty late, and maybe he just wanted to do the thing, get done and get back. You didn't get what you wanted, so you literally took your stuff and went home. Why not just wait at his place? Fixing a tire doesn't take that long, and it would've given you time to think it through at least. If he took hours and went non-com, you could've left then, but no, you snap reacted and bailed.

As for asking you for his key, I mean, you've worded it like he overreacted in doing so, and maybe he did, but depending on how hysterical you were about the friend/tire/Sunday thing, maybe he decided you were too much drama and overreacting in a way that made him want his privacy back. If it's on you, good for him. If it's on him, well, you dodged that bullet.

I don't see anything in your OP that seems to warrant this level of drama and scorched earth pettiness. My thoughts are that you're both better off being single until you get some better communication skills.[/quote]

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