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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP How are you going to live with yourself knowing that your 4 year old will continue to experience emotional abuse half of the time? [/quote] trolls out![/quote] NP Not a troll post. I am in a similar situation but DH acts similarly albeit at more diluted levels, towards my child. I stay to protect said child and spend as much time with them. [/quote] You’re not protecting your child. You’re showing them an unhealthy relationship and that’s what they’ll get into when they’re older. Leaving is hard and it’s super hard leaving your kids with the ex 50% of the time (blame it on our courts), but it’s the best thing you can do for yourself and your child. They’ll see that they shouldn’t put up with that kind of treatment.[/quote] +1 Rather than stress/eggshells 100% of the time, they will have harmony/peace/safety 50% of the time, and they will be able to count on it, and have that good example for themselves.[/quote]
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