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[quote=Anonymous]Don't "curate" the first night. That's your best plan. Let it be awkward, spontaneous, and lighthearted. Don't pressure yourself or your partner. Just go with the flow. Nothing ruins sex like a bunch of hype and expectations. Honestly? I'd go into it expecting it to be awkward and "meh" at best. Be ready to laugh that off. Don't take it so damned seriously! It's supposed to be fun closeness, not some pr0nworthy "performance". It's improv theatre, not classical ballet. Try to just be in the moment and see what feels good to you both instead of scripting it. Once you know more about what you like you can "spice it up". Be clean. Be present. Be willing (g/g/g).[/quote]
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