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[quote=Anonymous]Your post made me cry OP, as I think about my miscarriage. Everyone handles things differently. For me, a balm has been a friend allowing me to be close with her baby daughter - it seems perverse but I feel so good when I can caretake her child, it makes me feel better to have that sweetness around. Would you feel comfortable writing a letter (not an email) to these friends, just saying what you said here? How much you love them, how much you care about them, and how you would do anything under the sun to help them and protect your friendship. To tell them: tell me what you need from me, what I can do. Acknowledge the situation and see how to get ahead of it instead of trying to fix things when they've gotten rough (IF they get rough). You sound like a really loving friend. It's nice to know people like you are out there.[/quote]
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