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[quote=Anonymous]My gf, who I thought was the one, I was broke up Sunday.

It started when she came home from a trip Saturday night. She walked in on the phone, told her friend she’d call her back, and we greeted each other with a kiss. This is where this issue started according to her. I was watching the game and asked her at the same time how things went. According to her she started answering me and I started yelling at the screen during the game. She went to my room and called her friend back. Later that night she told me how she knew before she got home that the game was on so she knew I was going to be into the game despite not seeing each other for a week. I told her she’s been dating me all this time and knows how much I like basketball so what was the issue. She said she was still hoping it worked be different when she came home. I asked her why she expected me to drop everything to entertain her. Also let her know that she wasn’t all over me either when she came in. We seemingly get it over or so I thought. She has been quiet and somewhat distant all night.

The next morning, I kiss her and tell her I love her.  She looks at me said how she’s  worried about how we’re so different we are (we are different) and if it’ll work long term because we have different languages and seem to keep missing each other (not  understanding one another). I told her that she’d need learn my language and I’d learn hers. She seemed oaky at that point and said last night was one of those times where it seemed like we were speaking different languages.

Admittedly I got a little irritated because I thought we had moved past this. I asked her if she had heard of pick your battles. She said last night was an example of a bigger issue for her. How she feels like I don’t want to be bothered. That she wants to be all over me physically sometimes but holds back because she thinks I don’t want to be bothered. I reiterated how she wasn’t all over me and didn’t give me “I miss you” energy when she came home either. She said I hear you. I said she’s looking to be entertained 24/7 and how that reminded me of my ex wife. She said if both us felt the same way then maybe it’s not a her problem but that I have this aloofness about me that gives off the energy that I don’t want to be bothered. She went on to say she didn’t have this issue before (I guess wanting/needing so much attention) with the other men that she’s dated. This kind of ticked me off (I’m trying to be honest here about how I was feeling to get honest feedback). I told her that they probably were just too pu$$y to tell her. How she’s 34 and never been married or proposed to, so clearly there was a reason why they didn’t want to marry her. To which she said she was the one who broke up with them. I sarcastically said, “You’re just so perfect. Men bad. Women good, right?”.  I then told her to please go back to them because I’m sure that they’re dying to have her back. She said that she would and that they do. At that point she started to get up an walk away. I told her please add me to the list of men that she’s broken up with because clearly that’s what she wanted to do that morning anyways and to let me know if she needed help packing.

After she left I noticed she didn’t leave the key and I saw her rings on the side of the bed. I sent a picture of the rings asking her to confirm if she wanted them. She said I could trash them and she’d mail me the key. I told it was okay that she could trash it.

Did I go too far? [/quote]

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