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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your best friend is supposed to be your husband, OP. Not girlfriends. Your husband. Focus on that. Women don't get along. There is always infighting, backbiting, catfighting. There is no loyalty among females, and I am one. It is never as good as it seems, OP. You are not missing out on anything. Cheap intimacy is just that. Cheap.[/quote]

What?  I have close female friends that I’ve known all of my life, and from high school, college, grad school, and different jobs.  There has never been “infighting, backbiting, cat fighting”.  This sounds nuts PP.

OP, it sounds like you’re trying to create friendships with busy people who don’t really need more friends, so it would be on you to initiate interactions as well as probably to do the emotional work of moving things from being acquaintances to being genuine friends.  Instead of doing coffee, maybe think about doing activities that keep you and potential friends in proximity with each other long enough to determine whether you have common interests and values.  As an adult, I’ve made friends taking yoga classes, doing activities focused on social issues, taking music classes, through other friends, and even from being in a book group.  As people chime I here with similar issues, maybe you could consider doing a local meet-up.

Wishing you well with this OP!

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