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[quote=Anonymous]DH here: let me disagree with the weight of opinion on this thread. I don’t think it’s exactly symmetrical between men and women on this issue. If you are talking about your DH, I believe you can and should address this directly and forthrightly with him. It’s an easier fix for men, some combination of minor diet modifications, cutting back on alcohol (if applicable) and exercise especially weightlifting will take the edge off the weight gain relatively easily in my experience. I say this as someone who had let myself go in this manner, and didn’t realize how much it was bothering my DW. I wish she’d said something when she was feeling the way you are now. It’s super easy to be in denial about this kind of issue when you are in a funk, he may not even really be aware of how far things have gone, and sometimes tough love is the correct choice. Just putting that in the mix. [/quote]
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