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Reply to "Guys who do all the cooking — do they expect something in return?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My girlfriend hates to shop/cook but loves good food, so she thinks she hit the jackpot with me, who is very happy doing all that. But it’s not like I don’t expect her to pull her weight in other areas — for instance, she makes a ton of money and I can’t imagine her being dependent on me financially. Is this similar to the experiences of others where the man does the cooking? [/quote] What a strange way to think. Do you think relationships are this transactional? In many relationships, people do gravitate to certain tasks they enjoy more than their partners. But healthy people don’t bean count or expect quid pro quo. Were you born toxic or did you learn this flawed thinking by the way you were raised or socialized?[/quote]
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