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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Boy have all men lost all game? No, you don’t go from zero to asking someone for a date in a place where she comes for a purpose other than dating. He would deserve to feel like he could never go to that mass again. He has to actually talk to her, assess if she is interested, then subtly find out if she has a boyfriend. Getting more involved in the church community is also a way - he can ask mutual friends or even the priest. [/quote]

His last few girlfriends were really cute, so I think he has at least some game. I think he just has it in his head it's creepy or even sort of sacrilegious to try to chat up a random woman at church, especially when he just started going to Mass again.[/quote]

It's not creepy or sacrilegious to chat up a fellow mass-goer who he sees a couple or few times a week. Like, say "Good morning" the next time. Then a time or two after that he can introduce himself. After that, maybe ask if she's going to the spaghetti dinner next week (or whatever) and mention that he's volunteering. A couple more conversations and he can ask her out. At that point he should have a good idea what her reaction will be.

I mean, where better for him to meet someone that shares his religious beliefs, which seem important to him. I don't usually like to go hard on the "God has a path for you" bit, but maybe in this case it's true?[/quote]

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