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[quote=Anonymous]I mean the flip of that is you’ve only hung out with her a couple times and now you’re spilling your guts that you’re crying over your bachelorette party. Why do you get to treat her like your personal therapist but expect her to leave you alone unless summoned? Especially weird since her mother just passed. Have some perspective. She’s probably struggling way more than you are, yet she’s the one trying to offer support. She probably needs the emotional support herself and is trying to build the friendship in a way that isn’t self-serving. Sorry but you sound like a user. That you want the benefits of a deep, close friendship where you can cry about a stupid bachelorette party but don’t want to reciprocate. If you want shallow friendships where you just see each other once a month, that’s fine, but keep the conversations light hearted and don’t turn them into therapy sessions. [/quote]
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