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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with the PP that said practice should be part of the daily routine like other chores and homework. That's my view and I make my kids practice daily, though they definitely complain about it too. I think it's normal to complain about having to practice. Instrument practice is work and most kids would rather do something fun, even if they otherwise enjoy playing their instrument.

If I were you, I'd start requiring her to practice 15 minutes daily (with privileges contingent on it being done or whatever makes sense in your situation)--and especially if you're looking for a teacher to help her improve. I think it is perfectly ok to say this is the rule from now on because dad and I say so. It would be great if she could see the value in it for herself but you're the parent, she's the kid--you can tell her to do things because you think they're important. At some point soon in her life she'll be old enough to make her own decisions about whether to continue or not.

I am sure you can find another teacher that can help her grow without expecting more than she's willing to commit to at this point. Most kids are not super driven and I know there are teachers that can work well with those kids too.[/quote]

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