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[quote=Anonymous]What your child needs from you, more than anything else, is a loving, connected, emotionally available, relaxed, happy mom. Anything you can do to make yourself more like that is all to the good! I'm also a high-strung perfectionist, and it's good to have high standards, but you also need to recognize that you will not necessarily meet them in any given case and you will definitely never meet them in every case. It's often a good thing to WANT -- the part of me that worries incessantly over everything is the same part of me that notices we're running low on milk and someone's socks have holes and DH had a rough day so I'll make an effort to have his favorite dinner, just turned up to 11 -- but it's not actually achievable and the attempt will ruin your life and your kid's. Also your husband's, but he knew what he was getting into when he married you. [/quote]
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