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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve always envisioned my life and had certain standards for it. I do struggle with feeling like things need to be a certain way and perfect. I like things to be just right. Example: I will make the same recipe many times until I perfect it. This happened for our wedding, home, and now our baby. I had to have prefect everything for this baby. My birth plan is not what I wanted and I’m crushed and in a bad funk. DH kindly sat me down and shared his feelings and worries over my perfection. He feels my feelings of perfection will derail my happiness. He doesn’t like how rigid I am and wants me to loosen up. I’m not sure how to achieve that or why I’m like this. He married me knowing how I am.[b] He doesn’t get to change me.[/b] [/quote]

That's true. He does not get to change you. Absolutely not.

However ... if you want to stay married ... you will talk with a psychiatrist about what are, at best, OCD tendencies. It's a rough way to live, and is affecting those around you. [/quote]

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