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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean ... they moved in together. The word "ours" makes more sense than not. You sound jealous or something. It's bizarre that you didn't feel you "shared everything" until you had a "second child." What was wrong with the first one? [/quote] We didn’t fully combine finances until the second child. We also rented so there was no shared own home. I just thought it seemed odd for someone to move into another person’s home (owned) and say it is her home as well.[/quote] I moved into DHs house a few months after we started dating. I would say stuff like your house, your couch etc. One day I made comment that involved “your house” DH paused what he was doing and said “I don’t want a mine and yours type of relationship. That type of relationship doesn’t work for me. I want an ours type of relationship. Are you ok with that, if not I understand.” The good type of fear and love smacked me in the face hard that day.[/quote]
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